It’s okey to cry!

Some of a single person’s darkest days fall after a breakup.

You risked your heart. You shared your life. You bought the gifts, made the memories, and dreamed your dreams together — and it fell apart. Now, you’re back at square one in the quest for marriage, and it feels lonelier than square one, and further from the altar, because of all you’ve spent and lost.

No one begins dating someone hoping to break it off someday. The wiring in most of us has us longing for the wedding day. We’re looking, sometimes it feels frantically, for love, for affection and security and companionship and commitment and intimacy and help. 

Breakups almost always hurt. Maybe you didn’t see it coming, and the other person suddenly wants out. Maybe you were convinced it needed to end, but knew how hard it would be to tell them. Maybe you’ve been together for years. Maybe you love their family and friends. Without the ceremony and covenant, it’s not a divorce, but it can feel like it.

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It’s okey to cry!

Some of a single person’s darkest days fall after a breakup.

You risked your heart. You shared your life. You bought the gifts, made the memories, and dreamed your dreams together — and it fell apart. Now, you’re back at square one in the quest for marriage, and it feels lonelier than square one, and further from the altar, because of all you’ve spent and lost.

No one begins dating someone hoping to break it off someday. The wiring in most of us has us longing for the wedding day. We’re looking, sometimes it feels frantically, for love, for affection and security and companionship and commitment and intimacy and help. 

Breakups almost always hurt. Maybe you didn’t see it coming, and the other person suddenly wants out. Maybe you were convinced it needed to end, but knew how hard it would be to tell them. Maybe you’ve been together for years. Maybe you love their family and friends. Without the ceremony and covenant, it’s not a divorce, but it can feel like it.

Just me?

Yes, society and technology has come on a long way – but life as a teen is by no means easy. In fact, even though adults endure everything from work problems to debt, no period of your life comes close to being as difficult as your teenage years.Everything is changing both physically and emotionally and yet you are thrust in to the most intense situations of your young life, discovering heartbreak, anxiety, low self esteem and peer pressure along the way.

Parents

Look, they try, but they can’t always get it right. And sometimes they simply aren’t on the same wavelength – they’re not teenagers anymore so often they forget what it felt like to be one.

•Love

Longing for someone takes over your life and you think you’ll never love someone so intensely again – and you’re probably right. When that relationship breaks down you just want to give up on life.

Independence and privacy

You get told to act more mature but you still tend to get treated like a kid. While a lot of the mollycoddling is necessary, there is a distinct lack of privacy for teenagers who are desperate to assert and enjoy some independence.
                                            
But how?

° We get told to grow up one minute and act like adults then when we do were told to act our age and enjoy being young😎
°  We
 are told that we are the messed up generation, with social media, selfies, pouting, challenge videos, when half of us aren’t!

If you the special 👯 one is reading this÷

  • All the lies you’re told as part of peer pressure “everyone is doing it” you’re all still virgin, shut up.


For you.

Maybe this is just me, but I’ve always imagined this heroic person stepping into my life when I need them most and magically knowing exactly what to do to help. The reality is, that’s never going to happen as sometimes, you need to help yourself. Support from others is the best thing people can do for one another and I will aim to do this as much as I can. 🙂

Here’s a little bit of encouragement from me to you. ✨💫

 Nightmare after the best dream😥

Hi well there are always ups and downs in life. Im just going to write about my biggest down and up in my entire life. You probably think i liked her just because of her looks. Maybe you are right, but not all couples starts with full mutual feelings and for the personality.


If i say that i remember when was the first time we kissed.

I have always had a very easy going life, never really felt alone , have always had friends and family around me,She thinks i was funny and grown up. I wasnt too sure.I still remember when we just got together , i would make her angry every single day and had to make her feel better everyday. It was fun for both of us really. (Childish angry not angry angry) 

Every month for our anniversary i would buy her a gift or make her something a video etc.Until it all started, she is a little hesistant person gets easily agitated, and wants the other person to always listen. More in the childish way. But when she becomes irritated she gets annoyed about everything. 
It wasn’t a big of a deal that was all ok for me . She was like a different person she had a very different attitude towards me. She would always give me a little cold shoulder.

I dont know how many times i have cried because of you. Its breaking me to think about i can never see you anymore we wont be going to the same study centre anymore.

She’s is just different,nobody in this world can understand her until or unless……….

If you want a happy ending,that depends,of course,on where you stop your story.

Khota sikka!

To be honest i beg to say that “I like people with emotional n intellectual depth ,people that speak with passion from their inner twisted mind.” 😊

Don’t ever be afraid to show who you really are, because as long as you are happy with yourself, no one else’s opinion matters i said no one yes you heard it right NO ONE.
It was all about two years ago.
The disease i was suffering from was Got a bad habit of treating people better than they treat me and i know everyone is having that disease somewhere in their sack of meat.
**Love….made you like emotional somedays, emotionless other days it really does na?

Every girl’s dream is to dress up for a date and blow the guy’s mind and have him tell her she’s stunning one from that croud did the same she wished and i think i wished the same time too..😂 and yeah at last…..but it was a happy ending.

Days i caught myself dreaming of a family with her I think it’s important to realize you can miss something, but not want it back. The desire from inside for you it was not me but your confusing face made me to think twice.

I was just saying everyone has gone through something that has changed them in a way that they could never go back to the person they once were and re-reading old messages puts you in the best mood for 10 seconds then slaps you back to reality and you realise how much change.

And i actually don’t know what i want to say.

A lost travelling!

Kasol:land of psy trance!

Description:

Kasol is a village in Himachal Pradesh, northern India.It is situated in Parvati Valley, on the banks of the Parvati River, on the way between Bhuntar to Manikaran. It is located 42 km east of Kullu at the height of 1640 meters. It is popular with tourists many of whom also visit nearby village of Tosh!

Reason to love kasol?

Beautiful places are often hidden away in the most easily accessible of places. To those of us with less money than enthusiasm, Himachal is like a gift from God. To escape from the stresses of a mundane life, Parvati Valley in Himachal is one of the most beautiful destinations in the world.Nestled in these sylvan hills is the charming village of Kasol. Resplendent in natural beauty, Kasol is fast emerging as a hub for backpackers, trekkers and nature lovers. It is yet to be ruined by commercialization. However, it is also one of those places you want to strike off your bucket list before you have children as it is home to a deep rooted local culture of pot and hippie hues. Even if you are not into either of those, there are many other things to do in Kasol.
Best time to chill🤗

October to June are the best months to visit Kasol. Although the Kasol experiences good weather throughout the year, the ideal time to explore the wilderness of the place is from March to May. At this time of the year the weather is pleasant and the temperature varies from 7-13 Degree Celsius.
To reach:

There’s also the option of Direct Taxis from Delhi and now you can even rent cars. The fare for Taxi from Delhi to Kasol and back would be something close to 11-12 thousand in total.
Food:

The food at Bhoj Cafe was the best I’ve ever had until recently when the quality degraded to inedible. The breakfast is still pretty good with fresh cut veggies and a huge sandwich with a side of fries.

For some indian food there is namaste cafe which served you 24*7.

Nearby villages to track.

:Chalal (3km)

:Manikaran (4km)

:Tosh(7km)

:Malana(2hour track)


Some other secrets🙊

We know it’s more like an open secret and the village is actually famous for this very feature. Malana is famous for ‘Malana cream’, a strain of Cannabis hashish, which has high oil content and an intensely fragrant aroma. 

General knowledge about kasol:

Kasol is famous by the nickname of ‘Mini Israel’ perhaps because of its maximum tourists being that of Israeli origin and so most of the shops and inns too bear hoarding in Hebrew language.

 Malana The village is also infamous as a weed-tourist destination. In fact, it has won the title of ‘Best Hashish’ twice; once in the year 1994 and again in 1996 at High Times magazine Cannabis Cup.